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Introduction to Leadership Civility

Leadership Civility: Leading in a disrespectful and divisive era is a major challenge facing the world and precisely, our nation today, which can be observed in our work places, religious gatherings, political parties, schools, associations, organisations, etc. While I seek to understand why this is so, it becomes so clear that one major ingredient is missing in this whole things. 

No doubts, people are hurting and not many are paying attention to see this hurt in the lives of others. Employers make so much demand on the employees, the workers going on strike for not receiving the commensurate rewards for their efforts, parents putting pressure on their wards, lecturers failing their students and being joyful about it, the agberos and overload, the nagging of wives and husbands, etc. When all these are put together, we will wonder and ask, how come?

Hurting people have one thing in common - they need to be loved. While it is not clear the true definition of love, yet I find a description very captivating in the words of man called Paul. And he wrote thus:

"If I give everything I own to the poor and even go to the stake to be burned as a martyr, but I don’t love, I’ve gotten nowhere. So, no matter what I say, what I believe, and what I do, I’m bankrupt without love. Love never gives up. Love cares more for others than for self. Love doesn’t want what it doesn’t have. Love doesn’t strut, Doesn’t have a swelled head, Doesn’t force itself on others, Isn’t always “me first,” Doesn’t fly off the handle, Doesn’t keep score of the sins of others, Doesn’t revel when others grovel, Takes pleasure in the flowering of truth, Puts up with anything, Trusts God always, Always looks for the best, Never looks back, But keeps going to the end."

Love needs to be given daily in the appropriate dosage to each and everyone of us. I need to be loved likewise you, because it is universal commodity that everyone is seeking to have, even animals. 

If we can get the above words of Paul into the right perspective, believe me, disrespectful and divisive attitudes will become extinct.

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